I wanna destroy the culture of “women have to wear makeup to be considered presentable” and replace it with “makeup is a fun accessory that allows u to have horribly fake purple lips and green eyelids if u want yee haw who wants some glitter on their nose” who’s with me on this
People can be toxic and manipulative in your life and not even realize that they’re being that way… Communicate & if they’re not taking a step towards change, it’s up to you to make the necessary changes or just simply let go. Stop giving people excuses. Stop giving them chances & allowing them to drain your energy.
what really gets to me about the whole tortured artist softboi thing so many men play out is that they act as though no one else (often specifically their girlfriends/wives/etc) will ever understand their suffering as though women do not share this indescribable trauma of consciousness no man can ever truly comprehend
the way women relate to other suffering women (whether fictional or famous or complete strangers) is a deep empathy few men will ever share
